Confused friend
Confused friends
You have made me question what an actual friend is over this past week. I am confused at your shallowness at times. I am not used to the value of a friend being based on their ability to help you avoid your battles.
The are many types of friends in this life .I feel there are those who you make friends of convenience they are simply friends because they have said the right thing at the right time
But really what is a friend? Is a friend the one who is always lurking in the shadows never really wanting recognition just always wanting the best for you, or is a friend someone who simply pushes between an awkward conversation and appears to make it all better. I get confused because I am a pretty direct person. Or is it confidence that friends provide. Is it possible I need to set aside some time to understand.
Friends do provide encouragement but I do wonder sometimes if I am really your friend. I wonder if you place the value you claim to place on me. I know if you read this you would be deeply wounded but the purpose of this piece is not to dismantle or dishonour you in any way because you are my friend for life despite what may happen. I am just musing over this week and all that has happened. I suppose I should conclude a conflict of interest and opinion.But overall mutual understanding?
I suppose friends are people you talk to for longer than 5 minutes and you find you talk and talk afterwards. (You enjoy each others company). I suppose they are people you love so much that it is impossible to hate.
But is the value of a friend based on removing you from a tricky situation?
This is my question to you all? Someone please answer.
You have made me question what an actual friend is over this past week. I am confused at your shallowness at times. I am not used to the value of a friend being based on their ability to help you avoid your battles.
The are many types of friends in this life .I feel there are those who you make friends of convenience they are simply friends because they have said the right thing at the right time
But really what is a friend? Is a friend the one who is always lurking in the shadows never really wanting recognition just always wanting the best for you, or is a friend someone who simply pushes between an awkward conversation and appears to make it all better. I get confused because I am a pretty direct person. Or is it confidence that friends provide. Is it possible I need to set aside some time to understand.
Friends do provide encouragement but I do wonder sometimes if I am really your friend. I wonder if you place the value you claim to place on me. I know if you read this you would be deeply wounded but the purpose of this piece is not to dismantle or dishonour you in any way because you are my friend for life despite what may happen. I am just musing over this week and all that has happened. I suppose I should conclude a conflict of interest and opinion.But overall mutual understanding?
I suppose friends are people you talk to for longer than 5 minutes and you find you talk and talk afterwards. (You enjoy each others company). I suppose they are people you love so much that it is impossible to hate.
But is the value of a friend based on removing you from a tricky situation?
This is my question to you all? Someone please answer.
